Remembering Ram's late sister and brother in-law

It all started with a dream. A dream one of Ram's nieces had and spontaneously the siblings decided to hold a prayer gathering. They requested to hold it in our house, us being the elder, in the absence of their parents. We were delighted. We were more than willing and they were most welcomed to hold the prayer session in our house. Never mind the negativity detractors say about holding prayer sessions for the deceased, this even came from an 'ustaz', a preacher (I totally disagree with him!!) but we were determined that we were doing the right thing. Ram cooked the rice and prepared salad while the siblings, amongst them, brought the various dishes, fruits and sweets to go with.

I was asked, by default, to lead the congregation in the dusk (Maghrib) and the evening (Isya') prayers and in between the two prayers, the reciting of verses from the Quran; glorifying the Almighty and the holy prophet followed by supplications seeking His guidance and forgiveness, for the deceased as well as for the living. All participated, Babang and Dedek included, although Dedek could not hold his attention long enough through the session. And then there was Ehsan, aged between Babang and Dedek, the youngest of one of Ram's nieces, who also could not hold his attention long enough. Both Ehsan and Dedeks antiques kept those present amused, although somewhat silently while in prayers!!

As it was decided to hold the prayer gathering at a short notice some family members could not attend, two of them being away overseas and one family in Singapore could not make it. It was fortunate that Ram's sisters were here to keep a doctors appointment and that Shaffik and family were here too. Since this session was held at the 'spur of the moment' it was decided that sufficient notice be given for future gatherings to allow proper planning of the event. Ram and I are ever willing to participate.

All in all it was a worthwhile gathering. It has been a while since we were all gathered together like this and it was a welcomed event in deed. Most agreed that we should continue doing the sessions, at least two or three times a year. Detractors aside, we seek the Almighty's guidance in this and we pledge allegiance to Him seeking His forgiveness. May the Almighty be pleased. Wabillah-Hi-Taufek....

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